Who’s The Center of Your Life

Where were you when I established the earth?  Tell me, if you have understanding. Job 38:4

The Grand Canyon is big, Arizona is even bigger, and then there is the state of Texas, then the United States, then North America, then the Earth, the solar system—and above is a picture of the Milky Way Galaxy.

It’s so easy to think we are the most important person in the world, and that the “universe revolves around me.” We possibly spend much more time thinking about ourselves than anything else. That’s not good, as it really pushes out the Lord.

Some of the things that capture our thoughts are: How do I look? Will I be successful? Does that person like me? What do I want? Do others think I am…? Many people wonder about the future of their jobs, their children, their spouse, and their stuff—and on top of that, their feelings.

This isn’t inherently negative, but it narrows our perspective and limits our thinking. When we’re the center of our own universe, we tend to miss out on life’s adventures and opportunities for personal growth. We may perceive others as obstacles to our happiness and avoid reaching out to them.

My wife and I were waiting for a plane at an airport restaurant when I noticed an individual struggling a bit with his meal. Since he was wearing a Coast Guard shirt, I approached him, expressing my gratitude for his service to our country. We talked about the service, our faith in Christ, and our families. He lit up with joy, delighted to have someone talk to him. We engaged in a 20-minute conversation, and it was clear that we had positively impacted his day. Little did he know that he had also enriched our lives.

My takeaway is this: When we reach out to others, we experience unintended blessings. It’s a humbling reminder that we’re not the center of the universe.

Where were you when I established the earth? Tell me, if you have understanding.”
—Job 38:4

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